# Arshad Warsi's Heartfelt Revelation: When His Catholic In-Laws Feared a "Jobless Muslim" Over a Stable 9-to-5 Guy Imagine falling head over heels for someone from a different faith, only to face your future in-laws' shock: "We expected a steady Catholic guy, not a jobless Muslim!" That's exactly what Bollywood's **Arshad Warsi** faced with his wife, **Maria Goretti**, in their iconic interfaith love story.[1] Their romance kicked off in 1991 at St. Xavier's College during the Malhar dance talent show. Arshad, then a dance troupe leader, was blown away by Maria's talent and radiant smile—but it wasn't love at first sight. He invited her to join his group, but the "good Catholic girl" politely declined. Sparks truly flew later at a Dubai show, where a half-bottle of beer loosened her inhibitions, revealing mutual feelings. After **eight years of courtship**, they tied the knot on Valentine's Day 1999 with a unique dual ceremony: a church wedding followed by a *nikaah*.[1][2] Maria's Catholic parents were initially hesitant, wary of Arshad's film world background and lack of a "9-to-5" job. But after meeting him, they warmed up, on the condition of a church wedding—while Arshad's family insisted on the *nikaah*. Arshad later shared how respect trumps fleeting love in marriage: "Lust and respect have more value than love... Love is unreliable. What you need is respect."[2] Their bond endured challenges, like Arshad's nine-month obsession with production work that strained the family, but they've celebrated over **25 years** together, raising kids who lean Christian yet embrace both worlds.[1][2]
Citations
1.https://www.bollywoodshaadis.com/articles/arshad-warsi-and-maria-goretti-love-story-7724
2.https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/entertainment/hindi/bollywood/news/arshad-warsi-opens-up-on-his-interfaith-marriage-with-maria-goretti-says-lust-and-respect-have-more-value-than-love-in-a-husband-wife-relationship/articleshow/124937261.cms
3.https://indianexpress.com/article/lifestyle/feelings/arshad-warsi-interfaith-love-story-maria-goretti-10342946/
4.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4UNhNd-kTk
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